

Alison Cheperdak
Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., is a bestselling author, internationally certified etiquette coach, and the founder of Elevate Etiquette, a modern consultancy devoted to helping people move through life with confidence, clarity, and grace. She is also an attorney and entrepreneur with a career spanning television journalism, law, and public service, including service in the West Wing of the White House.
She is the author of Was It Something I Said? Everyday Etiquette to Avoid Awkward Moments in Relationships, Work, and Life (HarperCollins, 2026).
Drawing on her multifaceted background, Alison teaches modern manners in a way that feels both gracious and grounded. Whether she’s writing, hosting friends for dinner, exploring new cultures, or renovating a historic Georgetown home with her husband, she brings a thoughtful, real-life approach to etiquette that resonates with modern women.
Stories From Alison Cheperdak


How To Be Taken Seriously At Work Without Losing Your Femininity

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How To Know If You’re The Problem In Your "Toxic" Friend Group

Are You Being Honest Or Just Rude? How To Tell The Difference

How To Not Be The Ashley Tisdale In Your Friend Group

Stop Saying This To People Doing Dry January

250 Years Later: What Jane Austen Still Gets Right About Manners Today

I Attended Coco Rocha’s Model Camp: Here's What I Learned

What To Do When Everyone Is Hanging Out Without You
