The New Sexual Revolution
There is a new sexual revolution happening, and it looks nothing like the last one.
The last one told women that casual sex with men who were not committed to them was liberating. That if it left you feeling empty, you just weren’t doing it right. That the solution to every broken sexual norm was to break more of them. A lot of women listened, and a lot of women got hurt. They ended up more medicated and more lonely than any generation before them, having less sex than almost anyone before them, too.
The old sexual revolution was a disaster.
But the people who most loudly lamented it had no clear and exciting vision for an alternative. Instead, their best ideas were to push “purity culture” and shame women. They pushed chastity and told you to wait. And while they defended marriage, they didn’t tell you what comes after.
Do you know how many women got married not knowing they had vaginismus, a condition that is often psychologically induced, and physically prevents you from having sex? The traditional corners of society refuse to talk about sex as something thrilling and pleasurable. Everything that made sex sound exciting and appealing was owned by the so-called progressives.
The answer to the failed sexual revolution is not less sex. It’s better sex.
The best the conservatives had to offer was the virtue of “restraint.” Who wants that? We’re seeing young women arriving at the conclusion on their own that neither side has been willing to say plainly: sex is one of the most exciting parts of being alive, and it’s insanely better with a man who is wildly, completely obsessed with you.
A man who knows your body because he has made it his business to learn, and gives you the emotional safety to completely let go. We made The Sex Issue because no one else would. It’s the most honest, detailed, and bold thing I’ve ever seen in print on this subject. It’s going to make people blush. Some will clutch pearls. But the real ones know that this is an incredible turning page for society, and it’s something that should have been done a long time ago.
The answer to the failed sexual revolution is not less sex. It’s better sex. And the best, most fulfilling sex comes when you and your spouse commit to learning the art and science of pleasure.
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