"Love Is Blind" Star Sara Carton Dumps Ben Mezzenga At The Altar, Chooses Woke Politics Instead
In the climactic finale of "Love Is Blind" Season 8, viewers witnessed a dramatic confrontation between Sara Carton and Ben Mezzenga, culminating in Sara's decision to leave Ben at the altar.
The source of their breakup centered on divergent views—or the lack thereof—on social issues such as Black Lives Matter LGBTQ+ rights, and COVID-19 vaccinations.
Sara, a 29-year-old oncology nurse, constantly emphasized the importance of her "partner" aligning with her progressive values. Throughout the season, she expressed concerns over Ben's apparent apathy. In candid discussions, Ben admitted to being indifferent about politics, confessing he hadn't voted in the last election and lacked opinions on movements like BLM. This indifference upset Sara, especially because Minneapolis—their hometown—was the epicenter of the BLM movement in 2020.
The couple's differing religious views further soured their relationship. Sara, who isn't particularly religious, was concerned about potential discrimination against her sister, who is gay. Ben, a devoted Christian, was unaware of his church's stance on LGBTQ+ issues. Upon investigating, Sara found the church's sermons to be traditional and not supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, adding to her reservations.
On their wedding day, Sara addressed these concerns at the altar, stating, "I love you so much, but I've always wanted a partner to be on the same wavelength, and so today I can't." Ben responded with understanding, expressing his desire to continue their relationship despite the setback. However, Sara remained non-committal, highlighting the depth of their ideological divide.
The aftermath of this episode erupted on social media. Critics labeled Sara as overly political and pushy. Ben, on the other hand, faced criticism for his perceived lack of conviction and willingness to appease someone who doesn't share his values.
While some argue that love should transcend ideological differences, others argue that shared values are foundational to lasting love. The reactions to Sara and Ben's breakup highlight the challenges modern couples face.
In retrospect, both individuals exhibited traits that contributed to their relationship's demise. Sara was inflexible and dismissive of differing perspectives while Ben's apathy towards social issues portrayed him as disengaged or cowardly.
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