A Wife’s Steamy Secrets For Amazing Shower Sex

One of the best parts? You can be as messy as you want. The cleanup takes care of itself!

*18+ Disclaimer: This article contains explicit adult content and is intended for educational purposes for married women only. Reader discretion is advised.

I still remember the first time I was grinding against my man in the shower, his erection sliding between my sudsy cheeks. We must have stayed like that for half an hour. Let me tell you, it’s addicting. The cascading water, the slippery soap, the way he glides in you, and the way you slide on him. You deserve to experience this! So, let’s get to it.

Things You'll Need

Before you even step into the shower, make sure you have everything you need to make this experience as pleasurable and easy as possible.

• Non-Slip Shower Mat: Safety first! A non-slip mat is essential to ensure you can move freely and confidently without worrying about slipping during those passionate moments.

• Glasses of Ice Water: Stay hydrated, but make it sexy. Have a couple of glasses of ice water ready, ideally with a slice of lemon or cucumber. Not only does this add a touch of elegance, but it’s also a refreshing way to cool down during those intense moments.

• Natural Soap or Body Wash: Choose a natural soap or body wash that lathers well and feels luxurious on your skin. Something with a subtle, enticing scent like lavender, vanilla, or sandalwood can enhance the experience and make every touch feel even more sensual.

• Shower Sponge: A big, soft shower sponge is a must. It not only helps create those luscious suds but also feels amazing as it glides over your bodies. Think of it as an extension of your hands, helping you to lather, massage, and tease your husband in all the right places.

• Towels: This might seem obvious, but make sure you have plenty of towels within reach. You’ll need one for drying off after the fun, and perhaps another to kneel on if you decide to take things to the shower floor.

Different Kinds of Shower Sex: Finding Your Mood

Shower sex can take on many different vibes, depending on the time of day, your mood, and what kind of connection you’re craving with your husband. Here are a few ways to set the tone:

• Steamy and Sensual (Evening): In the evening, the shower becomes your personal haven, where the day’s stresses melt away under the warm water. This is the perfect time for a slow, sensual experience. Think of it as a romantic dance – taking your time, exploring each other’s bodies, and letting the water heighten every sensation. The dim lighting and candles add to the mood, making every touch feel more intimate, every kiss more lingering.

• Quick and Playful (Morning/Daytime): Sometimes, you just want a quick, fun romp to get your heart racing. Morning or daytime shower sex is perfect for this. It’s all about spontaneity and excitement – laughing as the water splashes around you, stealing kisses, and enjoying the thrill of doing something a little bit cheeky. This kind of shower sex is about lightheartedness and connection, a way to sneak in some intimacy during your busy day.

• Erotic and Intense: If you’re in the mood for something a bit more intense, let the shower be the backdrop for a passionate, all-consuming encounter. The confined space can amplify the heat between you, making every movement feel more urgent, every breath more electrifying. It’s about losing yourself in the moment, where nothing exists but the two of you and the pleasure you’re creating together.

• Refreshing and Rejuvenating: Shower sex can also be about renewal – washing away more than just dirt and sweat, but stress and fatigue as well. This is the kind of shower sex that feels revitalizing, where the water refreshes you both physically and emotionally. It’s a way to reconnect and feel re-energized, coming out of the shower not just clean, but closer than ever.

Each type of shower sex has its own unique flavor, and the beauty is that you can choose what suits your mood. Being that I’ve tried them all, I’m going to suggest what I find to be the most reliably satisfying kind of shower sex. 

Setting the Scene

Great shower sex begins with getting the water temperature just right. Make sure it’s warm enough to feel relaxing but not so hot that it leaves you overheated, because it’s about to get hot in there! The goal is to create a steamy environment that’s still comfortable.

Morning: Shower sex in the morning can be a fantastic way to kickstart your day. You can play some upbeat music to set the mood, or keep it simple with just the sound of the water cascading over you both.

Evening: If you’re opting for an evening session, take a moment to set the scene with a few candles. The flickering light adds a romantic, intimate glow to the room, turning your shower into a seductive sanctuary. 

The Sexiness Starts outside the Shower

Start with a deep, spicy kiss, pulling him close as you begin to undress him. As your lips stay locked, your hands work to remove his clothes piece by piece. Slide his shirt off, then unbutton his pants, letting them fall to the floor. Finally, pull down his underwear and give his cock one seductive lick followed by a sultry smile.

Now that he's completely naked, step back and keep your eyes locked on his as you begin to strip. Unhook your bra and hold it up for a brief second before letting it drop dramatically. Watch his erection grow as you slowly peel off your clothes. Turn around, shimmy your hips as you pull your panties down, and bend over just far enough to give him a lovely view of your kitty.

If he's already hard, take him by his cock and lead him into the shower. If he needs a little more encouragement, drop down and give his shaft some wet, teasing licks, followed by dramatic pop kisses on the head, adding a few strokes to ensure he’s rock hard. Then, stand up, grip his manhood in your hand, and guide him into the shower.

Lather It Way Up! 

This part of the shower sets the stage for what’s to come. Grab the sponge and your natural soap or body wash, and start lathering him up. Begin with his chest, working in quick, deliberate motions to build up a rich lather. Glide over his shoulders, down his arms, and across his torso, squeezing the suds on his cock and giving it a teasing stroke between lathering him up.

When you reach his backside, lather his ass cheeks quickly but thoroughly, keeping the momentum going. For an extra thrill, reach under him and lather his balls and taint with a quick, teasing caress that will make him squirm with pleasure.

Once you’ve worked him up, hand him the sponge and tell him it’s your turn. Turn around and present your ass to him, looking over your shoulder playfully. This will drive him wild. If he doesn’t soap you down everywhere, don’t hesitate to tell him he’s missed a spot.

The Secret Ingredient 

After you’re both thoroughly soaped up, it’s time to grind. This right here is the secret to great shower sex, and honestly, my favorite part because it’s so incredibly sensual. Stand with your back pressed against his front, guiding him to lean back against the shower wall. Slowly, let his erection glide between your ass cheeks, moving up and down without penetration. The soapy suds make every movement smooth and splashy, creating an irresistible friction that will feel incredible.

As you continue this slippery grinding, take it up a notch by twerking slowly in circular motions, still avoiding penetration. The teasing movements will make his shaft throb against you, growing thicker with every stroke. Glide and slide slowly up and down his body, feeling every inch of him against you. The sensation of his length nestled between your cheeks will heighten the anticipation for the inevitable. Arch your back to press even closer against him. Reach up and wrap your arms around his neck, pulling him closer as you guide his hands to your boobs. Encourage him to squeeze and play with them, adding another layer of sensation to the wet grinding. The combination of his hands on your boobs, the slippery glide of his cock against you, and your slow twerking will have you both desperately aching to be inside each other. 

Taking Him Inside You

Finally, it’s time. Reach back and take his slippery cock in your hand, giving it a few firm strokes before guiding it to your vagina. The soapy suds act as the perfect lubricant, making the entry amazingly smooth. Slowly bending forward, let him penetrate you, inch by inch, until he's fully inside. Pause, letting out a gasp as you adjust to the feeling. 

Then, start moving – rocking your hips back and forth, letting him fill you completely with each thrust. Let your hands slide up the wall, arching your back to give him deeper access. If you have a glass wall, press your nipples against the cool glass – it adds a whole new sensation that will drive you wild. Tilt your ass higher, inviting him to go even deeper, and ask him to spank you. This combination of stinging pleasure and the rhythm of his thrusts will feel euphoric.

If you want, move into the waterfall of the showerhead and let the warm water cascade down your back as he thrusts into you. The rhythm builds as his movements become faster and more intense. You’ll love the sound of the splashing water between your ass and his crotch with every thrust.  

The Climax

You can encourage him to pound you harder, the combination of the slick soapy water and his deep thrusts pushing you both closer to the edge. Alternatively, you can turn around, lift one leg around his waist so he can enter you, and wrap your hands around his neck and shoulders so you can grip him tight while he thrusts. As you cum, vocalize the surge of pleasure. He’ll love to hear you scream or moan as the water pours over you from above.

Once the intensity of the orgasm subsides, take a moment to hold each other close. I recommend adjusting the water temperature to be just a bit cooler to prevent you from feeling overheated. The coolness will encourage you to embrace his body tighter as you catch your breath. Let the water flow over you both, washing away the soap and semen, creating a sense of calm and relaxation. This is a perfect time for soft touches and gentle kisses.

Drying Off Together

Step out of the shower together and take your time drying each other off. Ask him to dry off your backside and then let him wrap you in the towel or a robe. Then drink the cold water you prepared before the shower to help restore hydration.

If you’re not pressed for time, take a moment for some aftercare and cuddle together on the bed or couch. If you have to move on with your day, give him a sexy, open-mouth kiss with a little tongue, and look into his eyes as you say, “I love you.”

Closing Thoughts

Shower sex is a simple, thrilling way to break the routine and bring a new level of excitement to an otherwise mundane activity. I highly recommend showering together at least once a week. My husband and I do it on the weekends. Great shower sex isn’t about moving through lots of positions. It’s all about the build up, and choosing one great position for him to take you to climax in. The more you prolong the sudsy, slippery grinding, the better!